God's Timing

Our Campus Counselor, Mr. Pattison, shared a tearful testimony at a recent JH/HS chapel. He and his wife detailed how, early in their marriage, God put the desire in their heart to someday have children. But after a decade of difficult waiting, they realized that having their own biological children was extremely unlikely. They shared how their experiences included a range of difficult emotions and questions for God about this setback. 

“Why did God put such a strong desire in our hearts only to not fulfill it?”
“Would God be willing to remove this desire to make our heartbreak less?”
“What does God expect us to do in our circumstances?”

During December, we are focusing on the fruit of patience. Practicing patience was so necessary for Mr. Pattision and his wife as they grew in their trust in God as they waited for His answers. Godly patience does not always result in what we want but in what God wants. Wow! That is a much deeper definition of patience. 

God led Mr. Pattison and his wife to pursue becoming foster parents. Now, after several placements in their home, God is beginning to reveal His purpose for their God-given desire. They also shared in chapel the journey of choosing not to become bitter toward others who can experience the joy of beginning their own biological family. Rather, they have learned to rejoice with others who have their God-given desires fulfilled in His timing. They have developed contentment and confidence in God’s sovereignty and goodness in all situations, including theirs.

As we celebrate the birth of Jesus this season, may we also celebrate His fruit of the Spirit living inside of each of us. 

"How might we develop Godly patience in our children eagerly waiting for Christmas morning?" 
"How can we teach them contentment in the midst of disappointment?" 
"How can we encourage celebration rather than jealousy of other’s gifts?" 
"How can we model and testify to God’s goodness and provision while trusting Him patiently?"

In many circumstances, God’s plans and timing will be different than ours. At times the waiting may feel confusing or disappointing. May we all embrace the deeper definition of patience. May we choose to trust God not only in the waiting but also in His divine purposes. How blessed are we that God is always on time with being patient with us!

“Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” Ephesians 3:19-2